「36个问题爱上彼此」《⽣活⼤爆炸》S08E16中Sheldon和Penny做的⼼理学
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是否有什么⽅式能加速两个⼈的亲密关系的形成呢？该⽂章通过让两个⼈交流36个问题，来加速这种关系的发展。
这种⽅式的核⼼思路是：两个⼈之间互相坦⽩⾃⼰内⼼隐藏的脆弱能增加相互间的亲密感。（不过其实愿意进⾏这种活动的双⽅本质上已经具有⼀定的相互吸引了）
下⾯是对这些问题的翻译（分为三个部分，依次深⼊）：
Set One
1、如果让你在这个世界上选⼀个⼈和你共进晚餐，你想要邀请谁？
1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
2、你想出名吗，在什么⽅⾯？
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
3、在打电话之前，你是否会预演⼀下要讲的话，为什么呢？
3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
4、对你来说，“完美”的⼀天需要包含哪些内容？
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
举重妖精5、你上⼀次为⾃⼰或为他⼈歌唱是什么时候？
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
6、如果你能活到90岁，但是在后⾯的60年⾥你只能选择保持30岁的⾝体或者30岁的思想，你会如何选择？
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
7、你是否有过关于如何死的神秘的预感？
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
8、说出三个你和对⽅可能具有的共同点
8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
9、你⽣命中最想感激的是什么？
黄腔>抉择之沼技巧9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
Set Two
13、如果现在你⾯前有个⽔晶球，它知道你关于你⾃⾝，你的⽣活，你的未来或者任何其他事情的答案，你会问它什么？
13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
谈恋爱的感觉14、是否有什么是你梦想很久但是⼀直没去做的事情，为什么⼀直没有去做？
14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
15、你⼈⽣中最⼤的成就是什么？
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15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
16、你认为在⼀段友谊中最重要的是什么？
16. What do you value most in a friendship?
17、你最珍藏的记忆是什么？
17. What is your most treasured memory?
18、你最糟糕的记忆是什么？
18. What is your most terrible memory?
19、如果你知道⼀年之内你会突然死去，你是否会对现在的⽣活做出任何的改变，为什么？19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
20、友谊对你来说意味着什么？
20. What does friendship mean to you?
21、在你的⽣命中，爱情和亲情的分别扮演着什么⾓⾊？
21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
Set Three
25、造三个关于“我们”的真实的句⼦，如：“我们在这个房间⾥都觉得…”
25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... “
26、完成这个句⼦：“我希望有个⼈可以分享…”
26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “
27、如果你打算和对⽅成为亲密的朋友，分享你认为对⽅需要知道的事情。
27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
28、跟对⽅说你喜欢他的点。这个回答必须⾮常诚实，你需要回答⼀些你⼀般不会对刚刚见⾯的⼈说的话。
月亮公主28、跟对⽅说你喜欢他的点。这个回答必须⾮常诚实，你需要回答⼀些你⼀般不会对刚刚见⾯的⼈说的话。
28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.
29、向对⽅分享⼀个你⽣命中最尴尬的时刻。
29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.
30、你上⼀次在另⼀个⼈⾯前或者⼀⼈⼈哭是什么时候？
30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
31、告诉对⽅你已经喜欢上他的地⽅
31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.
32、你觉得有什么事情是太严肃⽽不能被开玩笑的？
32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
33、如果你今晚就会死去，但是没有任何机会再和任何⼈沟通，什么事情是你最后悔没有告诉别⼈的，为什么之前不说？
33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
34、你的房⼦起⽕了，你所有的东西都在⾥⾯。在已经救出了你的爱⼈和宠物以后，你还有时间去抢救最后⼀样东西，你希望抢救什么，为什么？
34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
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